Dear Isabel, Can you settle an argument between me and my partner? She says religious people are happier and healthier than non-religious people. I think it sounds like a piece of propaganda religions spread to get people to join a church. Doubtful Dear Doubtful, You’re both going to be
Dear Isabel, My spouse and I have two children under 8. Both of us have strong, mostly negative feelings about how we were raised, in terms of religion. We want our children to develop their own religious beliefs as they grow older. But we’ve also observed beliefs out in
Dear Isabel, Religion causes so much war and destruction. It seems like every day the news is full of horrors from Gaza, the Islamic State makes war in hopes of establishing a caliphate, and of course then in history there have all those wars of religion: the Crusades, the Inquisition,
Dear Isabel, My husband and I decided when we got married to each stick with our religions: mine Jewish, his Protestant. We have both gotten more involved with our places of worship over the subsequent ten years, though, and it feels like we never have weekend time together. Now that
Dear Isabel, I feel like I’m uncultured and not enlightened. I want to be morally right and not be a bad or evil person. I want to be the kindest I can be. I feel like there is some form of deity. I don’t know what they’d
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